There are times when one needs to constantly remind oneself as to what makes them to devote so much to someone special in their life. Is it physical attraction or emotional attachment or something else? How long is it gonna last? Logic doesn’t seem to work when it comes to the matters of heart.
It’s not Yash Chopra or Karan Johan’s movie where love is in the air all the time. It takes time and effort to make relationships work. It’s not smooth going all the time with no hiccups. Healthy relationships involve respect, trust and consideration for the other person. Often wonder if the distance between the concerned matters? Insecurities creep in when distance prevails for too long; it doesn’t mean continuously worrying about the possible end of the relationship. And it’s just not physical distance in perspective. It’s not uncommon to come across a girlfriend who is overly possessive or a boyfriend who is insanely jealous. Why such a thing would happen in first place if they are committed to each other? We expect the other to behave the way we want them to and can’t accept them the way they are. In the process, one is bound to feel not given enough freedom to be oneself and that’s when things fall apart.
I know I’m not exactly making perfect sense here – but it helps just to write.